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Clean Slate (1994)
IMDB rating: 5.20
Plot: Pogue is a private eye with a problem: every morning when he wakes up, he has total amnesia, waking up with a ‘blank slate’. Since he is in the middle of a hot investigation and has a developing romance, this is less than convenient.
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Directors: Jackson Mick
Actors: Carvey Dana,Jones James Earl,Pollak Kevin,Gambon Michael,Murphy Michael,Ruginis Vyto,Bringleson Mark,Meloni Christopher,Scott Timothy,Sartain Gailard,Comedy,Mystery,
I don't know what to do?
Okay, so me and my boyfriend were dating for almost a year and he broke up with me. (it was my longest relationship) I thought we were completely over and I was devastated. I ending up going to a party (not really my style) and I ended up drinking way too much. This guy I didn’t even know got me to sleep with him. I didn’t want to, and I was out of it so I didn’t know how to just say "no." I know it’s gross to do that, and I feel terrible. Well after that me and my boyfriend got back together and I havn’t told him and it’s been almost a year. We recently broke up coming up on our two years. I want to be honest with I clean slate. Should I be honest and tell him? Obviously it’s bothering me if I’m still questioning it. I did NOT cheat, we WERE broken up together. I still think he deserves to know for a healthy relationship? I apoligize this is the longest question I’ve ever asked, if you even bother reading, thank you!
Okay, this is something that is qutie a slippery slope… I would know because I just went through this and it was infact… not a good ending, but that is not always the case. I really should have gone to yahoo answers.. because the way I went about it was terrible.. and I blame myself. So.. this is based on experience… You love him right? He loves you? Then it should be great…. However, and this is a huge however, to him it might not even matter whether you were on or off a break, he would still most likely be offended that you weren’t tramatized enough to just do what ever it is that you did… So this is one of the things that you have to prepare for… And just because Im bringing this point up, doesn’t mean that I don’t think you should tell him. Like you said if its obviously bothering you should tell him, not only because you care, and you don’t want it to be a conflict later… He deserve enough respect. What I recommend that you tell him, but the mistake I made was I gave him too much room to make me feel terrible about it. Yes, you did something you were not proud of, but what you need to keep in mind is YOU WERE NOT WRONG IN DOING IT! Don’t let him guilt you into feeling about, it was totally legal for you to do that. With that said what I mean is, when you give them oppertunity to make you feel bad, that makes them more prone to keep pressing at the fact that you feel bad, and makes it seem like what you did was actually wrong. It wasn’t.. So what you should do it tell him something like… Look I need to talk to you, this doesn’t have to be a big deal, but its something that I felt like I needed to tell you, because I respect you enough to be outfront with you. Make sure you put Zing on the fact it was when you weren’t going out. I did (( what ever, try to say what it was without details)). It was because i made a dumb thing and got drunk because I needed to wash away the pain (( stroke his ego)) and by doing this it only made me relize how amazing you are =]. It was a one time thing. i wouldn’t have told you, but its just something that needed to be said and move forward without. I love you with all my heart, and if you care about me (( Always a good thing to use in this situation)) you will understand it meant nothing. Say it like you mean it, have simpathy mixed in, but don’t act like its something your ashamed of. Don’t get defensive, and make sure you act cool and likes its not that big of a deal. If you make it one, it will be one. Keep eye contact, use lovey dovey eyes, and after give him a long hug/and kiss and tell him your his forever lol!! If he loves you he’ll understand, and move on.. and if he doesn’t he is a jerk and you don’t need him any whoo, your way better then him, because you obviously care for him. ^_^ I think thats really cute how you worry enough to question your action. I don’t know anything about you both, but I do know if its meant to be its meant to be. "If you love something set it free, if it is yours it will come back, and if it does not, it never was" -Unon. Stay strong. I believe in you, and your in my prayers. <3 Have a great day, and good luck!!
<3 Scarlett
Ps dont do drugs stay in school.
pss sorry mine is a essay just trying to help
Rosa Dusk | Jan 28, 2010
If you think it will make you feel better, you should tell him. But be prepared for him to take it however he may. Although you were broken up and you know it is not cheating, he may just see that you did not take your relationship seriously because as soon as it was over you went out and got some. Even if it was against your will. Speaking of, maybe you feel so much guilt not because you think you need to tell your boyfriend but because, in all honesty, it sounds like you were raped. You should look into some type of counseling. But at the end of the day, if you tell your boyfriend and he does not understand, then he is not worth it. I hope that all goes well between you and your bf and that you seek out some counseling.
Marley | Jan 28, 2010
ok so im a little confused here,you guys are broken up again or gonna break up again or still together? but in all 3 scenarios,you should tell him,he deserves to know,although you should have told him when you guys got back together…anyways,nothing can bring back the past but you gotta tell him now…we all do mistakes that we regret alot…so just try talking to him and be honest.. and yes he does deserve to know for a healthy relationship cos honesty is the only way to have a healthy relationship.
i do really hope everything works out between you two…and no,this is NOT the longest question,you should check out 1 of my questions,which im desperately trying to figure out.
God bless you!!
Christina | Jan 28, 2010
;-c It took place nearly a Y E A r’`R`’r ago HuH? …. & you did state that the two of had broken up `round the time that this took place right ?… If anything the guy you slept with & if you KNOW that sexual penetration did take place !?! Seeing or feeling said act taking place & you did not verbally say stop/no/get away or get off of me !?! More than once … It can be said that you willingly gave in!?! / gave (it)<SEX> up !! ? !!_btw_ Partying (not really being your style) !?! I’ll bet will be hard to present proof of or about !!?!! "Drink of the vine"!! but do’nt do this to the point of drunkardness"<– can be found in the Holy Scriptures in so0O many words !!!.,.
LEO rRr | Jan 28, 2010
Closer 
Megan | Jan 30, 2010
