long term healthcare
Monday, October 26th, 2009See: assisted living facilities
So many of us Baby Boomers, aka Sandwich Generation, know all too well about the emotional costs involved with caring for aging parents, but few will ever speak of the financial costs of elder care. It seems to be a taboo subject to speak of how much it costs to take care of Momma, but the bottom line is elder care is expensive and can put your family into financial ruin. The good news is there are ways to cut the costs of elder care, as one who has been there and done that, I sought out every available elder care cost cutting resource I could find.
When providing elder care for an aging parent, Social Security, Medicaid and Medicare only go so far each month, the deficit will have to come from your parent's estate or as it is in most cases, out of your own pocket. Your best resources to cut the costs of elder care will be those offered at the community level, which will be subsidized by state, federal or private agencies.
Adult daycare centers or senior citizens centers are facilities in which your aging parent can go to during the day that will allow you to continue working. The health and mobility of your aging parent will determine which facility will be the best choice, both of which will offer transportation, socialization and recreation as part of their elder care programs, along with some degree of nursing care. The out of pocket cost is just a small amount for the lunch served at either facility.
If your aging parent is unable to leave your home, there is Medicaid provided in-home health care that will provide qualified in-home health care during the day for your parent to allow you to continue working. If you don't work outside the home, you can receive part-time in-home respite care for your aging parent to allow you a much needed break from providing round-the-clock elder care. This in-home health care will not cost you anything.
The government sponsored Meals On Wheels program will bring home delivered meals for your aging parent. The meals are delivered fresh daily or frozen weekly (depending upon your location), along with milk, bread and desserts, which will help cut the cost of elder care by providing nutritious food at no cost to you.
Your local Alzheimer's Association is another good resource for cutting the cost of elder care by offering free adult diapers, pads, wipes, creams, etc., to qualified recipients.
A supplemental health insurance that will pay for medications and pick up where Medicaid and Medicare leave off is another way to cut the cost of elder care. Don't assume that Medicaid and Medicare will cover all medical expenses, they don't, and when a hospital stay in necessary for your aging parent, the hospital bills will follow.
A booklet listing all your community's elder care services and their contact numbers should be available to you at your local DFACS office, Social Security Administration or Veteran's Affairs office.
Utilize every available resource your community offers to cut the cost of elder care.

